If you’ve ever yelled at your dog, whether out of fear, frustration, or pure panic, you’re definitely not alone. But what if that split-second outburst affects your dog in ways far deeper than you realize? The surprising truth is that dogs process raised voices very differently from humans do, and the impact can linger long after the moment passes.
Maybe it happened when your dog gnawed through a favorite pair of shoes or sprinted toward the street without warning. Those instinctive “STOP!” or “NO!” reactions feel natural to us, but inside your dog’s brain, something entirely different is happening. And once you understand the science behind that response, it becomes impossible to unsee.
Today, we’ll dig into what yelling actually does to a dog’s emotions, stress levels, and behavior, plus the simple swaps that can keep your dog feeling safe while still teaching them what they need to know. This is one insight every dog parent deserves to understand.
Budget Tip:
Yelling at your dog tends to cause other behavior issues, especially if you yell at your pup regularly. This can ultimately hit your pocketbook with an eventual vet visit to find out why your dog is acting or behaving oddly. That means when you don't yell at your dog it's a win-win for your furry buddy and bank account.
Is it okay to yell at your dog?
No. It confuses your dog when you yell.
He doesn’t understand what your saying. Remember the Peanuts cartoons when Charlie Brown and his friends would talk to an adult? The adults would all sound like “rrrrrrrrrrrr” Well, that’s what your dog is hearing. BUT, when you’re yelling, he’s hearing AND feeling your anger.
Try it from your dog’s perspective. You’re whole world just got turned upside down. Everything you knew you don’t see anymore. You have a new home and you love your family. They even give you toys and yummy food. Then suddenly one of them walks in yell at you. What does it mean? Will my world change again? You’d be confused and fearful too.
1. Your dog associates yelling with the wrong thing.
Additionally, if I yell at my dog for doing something wrong and it’s past the time he actually did it, he won’t understand. He’ll associate the yelling with what’s happening at the current moment.
For instance, if I yell at my dog for chewing my new shoes, but he did it an hour ago, he’ll not make the connection. He’ll make the connection with me walking and being mad at him. So, instead of him greeting me happily, he’ll learn to fear me coming home.
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Rescue tip
Additionally, if you have a rescue dog, keep in mind that you may not know his entire history. My dog is a rescue. The way he responds to certain things, like if someone raises their hand quickly, (he’ll sit, fold pin his ears to his head, and get as small as possible, while half shaking) tells me he was negatively trained by his original owners. While your dog may not be able to speak your language, he can talk to you. Be aware of what he says and react appropriately.
2. Your dog will fear his name.
If I say my dog’s name while yelling or in a negative way, he will learn his name is not a positive thing. He’ll not come when I call him and he’ll have fear when he hears it. Not exactly the reaction I want from my dog. I’m certain it’s not the reaction you want from your dog either.
This is similar to how when you’re a kid and your mom says your entire name. You know when the whole name came out, you were in BIG trouble and in immediate fear.
3. Yelling negatively affects your dog
A recent study from the University of Porto in Portugal showed that negatively trained dogs, meaning those dogs that are trained with yelling and leash jerking, had an increase in stress behaviors. These behaviors included lip licking and yawning. They also tested these negatively trained dogs’ cortisol levels and found they’d increased as well. Even though this study wasn’t huge, the results aren’t surprising. I know if I get yelled at, I feel awful. It would make sense that another feeling animal would do the same.
Vocal tone tip
It should also be mentioned that most dogs react very easily to vocal cues. If I raise my voice in the least, my dog will sit and look nervous. He may not shake. However, many dogs shake with a raised voice or yelling. Even I if say, “OH NO! I’m out of coffee!”. The opposite is also true. If I say in a happy voice, “My work is done for the day!” He’ll dance and be happy too. He bounces off my emotions. As I said earlier, dogs hear AND feel emotions.
In this article, I talk about what your dog’s bark means.
What do I do when my dog misbehaves?
All dogs and humans will misbehave from time to time. That’s the nature of growing and learning. It’s how you react to those situations that makes all the difference. There are ways to react in a calm or better way than yelling.
1. Take a deep breath and count to 10
Never physically harm your dog. Remove yourself from the situation if you’re really angry. Never yell at your dog.
2. Remember why you got your dog.
Think back to your dog goals. If you don’t think you have any dog goals, don’t worry.
In this article, I discuss setting dog goals and adjusting them
3. Focus on positive reinforcements.
Enroll in training or behavior classes. Dogs that are trained in a positive manner do much better. Think about when you’re at work and get yelled at by your boss. Do you like it? Probably not. Then think back to a boss who wanted something done differently and explained it in a calm and professional way. How did that make you feel in comparison? More respected? More understood? That’s the difference between a good leader and a leader who rules by fear. Be a good pack leader for your dog.
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Marc Bekoff, an evolutionary biologist at the University of Colorado in Boulder, has stated that “[Reward-based/positive training] may take time, but so what? At least the dog isn’t living in fear or constant stress.
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Have You Yelled at Your Dog?
While it can be easy to lose your cool when you see something you really like destroyed by your furry dog, it’s not okay to yell at him. Yelling at your dog will confuse him, have him associate the yelling with the wrong thing, make him fear his name, and most importantly it physically negatively affect your dog. Instead of yelling try taking a deep breath and counting to 10, remembering your dog goals, and re-focusing on positive reinforcements.
