Who doesn’t love being greeted like a rock star by their dog just for coming back from the mailbox? I bet you have wondered the same thing I have about my dog, Henry. Do dogs really feel love, or is it love for cookies? The good news is that science says it’s not just about the food.
Love Hormone at Play
Science has discovered that when dogs and humans look at each other, they both experience a rise in oxytocin. This is the same hormone involved in bonding between parents and babies. Even a mutual gaze between dogs and their people increases oxytocin levels for both. That means strengthening their bonds. Another way to think of this is that your dog’s happy look isn’t random, but rather it’s chemistry.
Dogs Form Real Attachments
Researchers have found that dogs show attachment behaviors similar to those of young children. Our pups seek comfort from us when they are stressed. They also get excited when their favorite person returns. Often, our furry friends use “their person” as a safe place when exploring new areas. That’s not a random act or even a habit. It’s about the emotional bond your pup has to you.
But Is It Love Like Ours?
It’s a bit like comparing dogs and pet rocks. Your furry friend simply doesn’t experience love exactly the same way as you. I mean, your buddy can’t write poetry, give you flowers, or remember special days. It’s not rude. It’s a different form of love. Your buddy’s strong social bonds are based on trust, safety, and positive experiences. That’s what love is for your dog, and that’s kind of cool!
Fun Fact About Whether Dogs Really Feel Love: Scans of dog’s brains have shown that their reward center lights up when they smell their favorite human. Surprisingly this part of the brain is more engaged with the smell of their person than even with the smell of food. In other words, you top treats in your dog’s eyes and that’s a huge deal!
What This Means for You and Your Dog
Your dog’s tail wags, happy dances, and need to follow you everywhere aren’t just them looking for a yummy treat. These are all signs of a true and deep form of attachment, affection, and puppy love.
While science has revealed your pup may not be able to love you in a Hallmark-card way, your buddy is deeply loyal and emotionally bonded to you as you’re their person. As for my Henry, his unconditional love can melt my heart every day!
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