Shockingly (or maybe not so shockingly) 78% of Americans travel with their pets in tow. This means dog parents travel with their furry buddies at Thanksgiving, Christmas, and every other chance they get.
However, traveling with your dog and visiting someone’s home can take a bit of preparation. After all who wants to be a bad guest and never be invited back?
Today, we’ll explore the top 20 things you need to do in order to have great dog overnight visits and get a second invite. There’s no need to leave your pup at home when you follow these easy ideas.
Budget Tip:
The great news is that it doesn't cost much if anything to be a great dog guest. It's simply a matter of being polite and prepared. I always think of the other person and if I were them what would be good, then what would be great and aim for that one. I guarantee following the great ones will get you a invition to come back with your pup. Yet, there's hardly any expense involved. Now, that’s a win-win and you and your pup get to relax a bit.
Why do I want to be a good guest?
This should be self-explanatory, but in case you don’t know who wants a jerk in their home. Imagine your perfect guest and then be even better. If you don’t care for the folks you plan to visit, then perhaps, re-think visiting them. Otherwise, be a great guest. How? It starts before you even leave home. Here are 20 tips that will make you a great guest with a dog.
1. Ask if you can bring your dog
I know it may sound simple, but it’s often overlooked. Honestly, it’s just polite to ask if you can bring your dog before you show up at the front door with Fido. Sometimes folks have allergies or their pets don’t like to share their home.
2. Make sure your dog is up-to-date on vaccinations
While your friend or family may never ask if your pup is vaccinated, it’s good to have those documents. Some states will even require documentation of vaccines before crossing state lines.
3. Bring your dog’s vaccination records (if possible medical and allergy records as well)
You can store vaccination and medical records online. Although, I like to have a hard copy, just in case I need one for an emergency veterinarian or out-of-town veterinarian.
4. Learn about the neighborhood veterinarians
You hopefully won’t need this at all, but it’s always good to know about the local vets, which ones are highly recommended, and which ones people constantly ding before arriving at your friends’ home. You’ll also want to look at their emergency status. You just never know what will happen and when. Preparation is always key.
Discover how to find a great veterinarian in this article.
5. Wash or groom your dog before departure
The last thing you want to do is arrive and have your friend say, “Cute stinky dog!” With this in mind, you also want to bring your dog shampoo, dog wipes, brush, and dog dental spray. Additionally, don’t forget to wash your dog’s bed(s), collar, harness, and leash, which can all hold your dog’s smell.
In this article discover different ways to cure your stinky dog smell.
In this article, I guide you on how to find a great dog groomer.
6. Take all your dog’s medications, food, and treats
This seems like an easy one. However, if you’re close to running out of food or medications, it may mean a trip to your vet or placing an order online, which could be delivered to your friend’s house if necessary.
7. Check out the dog parks and local dog-friendly areas before you go
You can save a bit of your visiting time by looking for dog parks or dog-friendly trails online. It might surprise you to learn what you and your dog can uncover. Sometimes a dog park isn’t the best option. You might do better with walks around the neighborhood.
Discover how to be a dog park rock star in this article.
8. Bring your dog’s bedding or crate
This will allow your dog to have a sense of familiarity and calm in a new or different space. However, ask your friend first if it’s okay to bring these items. Sometimes there’s simply no space. Or for whatever reason your friend won’t want them in the house. If this is the case, then bring a small blanket or towel that your dog has slept with for a few days (after his or her bath so it’s not stinky).
NOTE: Make sure you have cleaned bedding and they don’t stink of dog. Remember most dog beds can be washed in a washing machine on the gentle and go into the dryer on low or no heat. Also, you can put 1/4 cup of distilled vinegar in the water to disinfect and un-stink the dog bedding. I’ve been washing Henry’s beds for years.
9. Pack a few favorite dog toys
Again, this will give your dog a sense of familiarity in a new place. Plus, it will distract him if he gets nervous or wants to do something naughty he shouldn’t.
10. Pet odor eliminator spray and doggie pee pads
While your dog might be superb at home, he may get nervous in a new or different location. If your friend has pets, your dog may feel it necessary to mark where your friend’s pets have marked. It’s always good to keep your eyes on your dog. But just in case he should do something not so nice, then a dog-friendly odor eliminator spray will work. Some people will even put down pee pads for their adult dogs at night while visiting friends or family, just in case the urge should hit and he/she doesn’t tell you.
NOTE: Some people are very clean and don’t like shoes in their homes. With these friends, be prepared to wipe your dog’s paws with a doggie wipe whenever he comes inside.
11. Leash and introduce your dog to your friend’s family, including pets
When you arrive, make sure your dog is on a leash. Gently introduce your dog to your friend, if they haven’t met. This includes other pets and family members. Do this from a distance and then bring the pets and people closer as they appear to want to peacefully interact.
12. Dog’s sensitive areas
If your dog has sensitive spots, such as ears, or is food-possessive, make sure your friends are aware of these issues and areas. You can even do this before you arrive and then again once you are there with your dog. This is a critical one and prevents unnecessary incidents or injuries. Especially if your friend has young children.
13. My dog can’t eat that!
Politely inform your friends, especially if they are not familiar with dogs, about things that dogs can’t eat, such as chocolate, onions, and garlic. Remind them it’s best for your dog to eat his or her food and treats only. And that he or she should only drink water.
Again, you can do this in advance, and then remind your friends once you arrive. I know once you see an adorable dog, the mind sometimes can’t remember everything it was told.
14. Backyard dog inspection on a leash
After you’ve done introductions, ask your friends if you can walk the yard with your dog on his leash. Make sure the yard is safe. You don’t want any holes in fences or loose boards. Let your dog sniff and mark as he would like. However, don’t allow your dog to pee on flowers or plants unless your friend says it’s fine. You may want to accompany your dog whenever he goes to the backyard. That is something you’ll have to decide.
In this article, discover the hazards lurking in the backyard and how to make a yard safe.
15. Let your dog walk the house
Next, it’s time to move inside. Ask your friend if you can walk inside the house where your dog will be allowed. Leave your dog on his leash. Do this slowly and let your dog slowly sniff and listen to noises. If you observe your dog wanting to mark anything, quickly clap your hands, say “NO”, or squeak a dog toy. Basically, do something to divert your dog’s attention. You don’t want to start off on a bad note.
16. Setup a spot for your dog to get food and water
Keep the water out at all times as you would at home. Make sure that your friend is fine with the location you select. Also, ensure it’s an easy spot for your dog to get to at any time.
17. Establish a safe spot for your dog
Your dog may get overwhelmed and need a spot to retreat. This could be in the room you will be staying in at your friend’s home or some other location. The idea is that it should be easy for your dog to access, yet safe from other animals, and people (including kids), if necessary.
18. Desensitize your dog to noises before bedtime
Your friends’ home will have different noises than yours. For instance, the refrigerator may be louder, the furnace may be next to the room you occupy with your dog, or you may hear coyotes.
Take your dog into the room you’ll be staying in 30-40 minutes before bedtime and let your dog start getting comfortable as you get ready for bed. Put out a few comfort toys, if your dog has any. Some people have found that soothing music helps. Or even something familiar like a crate will help. My dog, Henry loves his heartbeat toy to provide comfort. The idea is to have your dog adjust to those new noises slowly with you there.
19. Regular dog routines are important
While everything can be new and exciting for you and your dog, keeping your dog to a regular routine with walks, food, and brushing will help your dog feel secure in this new temporary location with you.
20. Clean up after your dog
Like any good houseguest, it’s important to clean up after yourself and your dog. This means if your dog should eat a shoe, you need to replace it. Or if your dog gets sick on the floor, you need to clean it up. Of course, you also, need to leave the house smelling fresh and the backyard looking pristine. I like these poo bags for Henry.
In this article, I reveal an easy DIY hack for opening doggie doo bags.
Are there dogs that don’t make good houseguests?
There could be a few dogs you wouldn’t want to take to visit someone. These include:
- Aggressive dogs
- Sick dogs
- Not potty-trained dogs/puppies
- Puppies without all their shots
- Dogs recovering from surgery
- Pups or dogs who tend to bark a lot
- Unaltered dogs in heat
- Dogs without basic training could be difficult for some friends to handle (jumping, begging, nipping while playing, etc)
Is it cost-effective to plan a holiday dog visit to family or friends?
Oh my, yes! Honestly, the cost savings could be in the $1000s or more depending on the area and how long you are invited to stay. That is HUGE!!!
Of course, you don’t want to overstay your welcome or be a “sponge”. That’s the purpose of this article. In fact, I generally even leave a gift for my host or hostess. Plus, I always leave the spaces Henry and I use cleaner than when we arrived. Additionally, I help out wherever possible with meals or chores. Yet, I’m still relaxed and saving a lot of money.
With this in mind consider the following possible expenses for a moment.
Possible Issue | Estimated Cost |
Boarding your dog while you’re away | $25-85/per day |
Pet sitter while you travel | $25-75/per day or night |
Pet-friendly hotel | $0-100/per night in pet fees + hotel room price |
Losing a friend because your dog is not a good guest | Heartbreaking!!! |
Having your furry buddy with you | Relaxing and less stressful!!! |
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Ho-Ho-Ho to You and Your Furry Dog Too!
The thought of visiting a friend or family member with your dog can seem too enticing to resist. So many dog parents love to take their pups with them when they travel. I do.
However, it’s also important to be a good dog houseguest. Actually, you want to be a great guest with your dog. In doing so, you keep those friends and family members. Plus, you get many more invitations to visit and with your dog. And you can do it on a budget. My dog, Henry is a good houseguest and we have received repeat invitations just by following these simple tips.
I did not think about local veterinarians when I go on a visit. This is essential and I would NOT have thought of it.
Washing my dog MIGHT be another essential, and drying them. The smell of wet dog is totally memorable and NOT always popular LOL!!!
Yeah, checking to see what vets are available in your vacation spot is always good. When you need a vet you’re scrambling. So, it helps to be prepared. Wet dog smell isn’t my favorite either. I wonder if dogs and cats hate the smell of wet humans (like being drenched in a rain storm)? Hmmm….. 😉
Great post and so important especially if your friends or family have dogs. I learnt the hard way when I first got Nili and Gidget came to spend a weekend with us and she kept attacking Nili, when I told my friend she said she had forgotten Gidget does not like young dogs, it was a nightmare of a weekend and the last time Gidget will come to my house.
Oh my! That’s awful that Gidget’s human didn’t remember she’s not fond of young pups. Oh, how miserable that must’ve been. I remember Gidget and Layla got along well. I guess Gidget likes being the young pup with her friends. Hopefully, Nili will make other fun friends you both like. Thanks for sharing your experiences, Ruth! I appreciate it!
Terri, these are phenomenal tips! While you think some are a “gimmes” I’ve had guests who came with their (surprise!) dog without letting me know. While I had five of my own, there were things I would have liked to prepare for the visit. Like, the guest had a small dog and I had Huskies who thought small dogs were like toys (small prey drive), so I had to keep my dogs in a section of my house cordoned off (and it was their home!) so this guest could let her little one run around. If I knew beforehand, I would have suggested bringing a kennel for their dog. Luckily, my Huskies were really well behaved and enjoyed their room (it was a section of the house). But very unfair. I did inquire to be sure their dog was vaccinated and healthy. But, honestly, I had steam coming out of my ears! I tried to make the best of the situation, but lesson learned. After that, whenever someone was coming to visit (and yes, this was family) I asked if they were bringing their dog! Some people just don’t think.
This is such a great and informative article that all traveling pet parents should read! I am definitely sharing and Pinning for those who travel and visit with their dog(s) to hopefully read beforehand!
PS – Henry looks adorable and like he really enjoys traveling!
Yes, I agree. Most of these are gimmes, but some folks need a reminder like your guest. Gosh, that is just awful! Some folks just don’t think. Henry does love to travel and explore. I think it likes it more than me. Funny pup! Thanks for the support and encouragement! I always appreciate it!